Stop masturbation

Masturbation Is Not Just a Bad Habit.
It is an obsessive compulsive cycle from which is not easy to break free.

 

Scientists claims that masturbating frequently recycles stagnant sperm and even helps to prevent prostate cancer and other health benefits. But I still got a problem, I always feel ashamed right after masturbating why?

Is Masturbating a Sin?

 

“Isn’t it better to masturbate and relief the stress and tensions, rather than get sexually frustrated and increase the chances of being a sex offender”?

 

First and foremost,its very important to ask yourself why do I masturbate?

 

Masturbation is a serious issue that can affect a man’s life. It makes one start looking for time alone to masturbate.
Tend to stay more at home alone and start losing friends and turn to porn to masturbate more.

Why not stop masturbation once and for all, you don’t need it to have a good sexual life and it only nourishes your fantasies and nurtures unhealthy desires.

Below are some tips that will help you to stop mastubation.

1. Distracting Yourself When You are Tempted.

Masturbation is easy to fall back on especially when you are lonely or if you’ve got a lot of free time. By keeping yourself busy with stuffs will help you fill up your time.

 

At last you will admit that , it’s been fit in your subconscious mind and when anything get fit in our subconscious mind then its very hard to to remove.
Engage yourself with activities, find a new hobby or learn somthing that takes time to master such as baking, gardening, wood shop and cooking, just distract yourself anytime you are tempted.

2. Prayers.

Do You Pray? What About Meditation? Study the word of God, invite God in and stop asking questions like ” why wont God take the habit of masturbaring or sexual desire away? God will not answer your unspoken request unless you cry to him and pray.
Looking to know more about God will wash out the mind and way of thinking.
Praying more for God’s mercy, grace and control over your life. God is always ready to help and answer his children .

 

3. Making Decision and Standing by it.
Its going to be really difficult before it gets better, but you have to rewire your brain. You are not going to die. Those voice are liars and don’t care anything about you. What do you believe? Have you ever heard of someone exploding from lack of orgasm? No. So now that we have set that aside, its time to buckle down , decide that its time to fight masturbation.
Prayer is necessary but insufficient to do what you want to do, make effective decision, decisive action if you want to quite a habit.

4. Do Away With Porn Pictures/Videos.
Clean up your computer. Get rid of any porn you have saved. Remove any access to the material that you find positive ways to stop yourself from masturbating and all the artificial and sexual stimulation from your life.

5. Have a spiritual mentor/ sponsor.
You may have larger problems that needs to be addressed and if masturbating has a negative impact on your life then that alone makes it important enough to deal with.
And you need a mentor, someone you can speak to openly and won’t judge you. As a believer, you need to see that the source of all this is evil. You are contending against evil powers that are literally drawing you away from God and your potential.

You need to realize that when the desire comes inside of you its Satan tempting you and trying to take you away from God and God’s potential for your life. So you need sosomeone that can assist you spiritually

6. Self Control.
I have not met anyone who feels victorious after they have masturbated.
Masturbation is not helping you manage your sex drive or your desire to have sex, instead it makes you feel empty, lonely and even ashamed when its all over.
Controlling your thoughts is so critical.

 

 

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